There are several things I have learned over the years in setting expectations for how things turn out. 

  1. You can over-plan! You spend so much time planning the event that when it actually happens, it's melodramatic and a let-down. The event occurs in a flash, and there's no time to enjoy it, especially if you're constantly watching to see that everything happens as planned. I suppose part of the event is the planning, but that's not me. I like to wing things! 
  2. You can do anything alone! I do not know why doing things alone has ...

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